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ARE YOU PROMISING TO…?

ARE YOU PROMISING TO…?

What have you promised yourself as 2017 ends? So many resolutions are made with good intentions and then broken. Yes it is that time of year again. One year ends another begins. Are you making resolutions, those promises that sometimes last only a week or month? We all embrace the need for certain changes but our resolve doesn’t seem to be permanent!

Until I looked into the subject I didn’t realize how long the year-end resolution tradition has existed. For instance the ancient Babylonians made promises not just to themselves but to the gods to win their favor for the coming year. Who knows how long those promises were kept?

What can we do to make our desired life changes become permanent? For instance how can we be sure to lose the extra pounds of weight, exercise every week, be kinder to ourselves and family, or clear all the closet clutter? One sure and dependable way to “stay the distance” with our desires is to employ the help of our subconscious mind. That is where clinical hypnotherapy is a huge help.

By utilizing hypnosis you have a 24-hour helper to create the desired changes. Your wonderful subconscious will act powerfully on anything you give it. Tell it that you now weigh your perfect weight of (fill in the blank) and it will make it happen! In other words you will find yourself not desiring those overly fatty snacks, picking smaller helpings at dinner and generally eating healthy.

Employ your subconscious to see your whole home neat and clean exactly the way you want it. Use that help to organize you days. There is no subject that the deepest part of your mind will not tackle! All you need to do is access your subconscious mind with the right information, all of the positive pictured outcomes.

If you would like to make and keep your resolutions this time, give me a call. I will use my skill as a certified clinical hypnotist to reinforce all of your desired goals. We will work together to bring your resolutions to life.

I am Reverend Lois Cheney. My web address is www.ArkansasPsychicHypnotist.com.Your appointment will be private and confidential. E-mail RevLois@gmail.com or telephone (928)300-2030.

ME AND THE HAMBURGER BUNS

Yesterday I had three good sized meals. In other words, I had no reason at all to be hungry at seven o’clock in the evening, but I was! All I could think about was a hamburger. “I need a hamburger.”  “I want a hamburger.” “I want a hamburger now!”

In the midst of all this beef craving I happened to look in the direction of the kitchen sink. There it sat, the culprit, proudly and blatantly displaying itself on the counter top was a brand new package of hamburger buns I had purchased that morning.

Instead of putting those buns in the cupboard as I should have, I had elected to “display” them in plain view thus causing in me the constant urge to use them! I quickly put them where they belonged out of sight.

As I thought about the whole scenario and the dynamic effect the display had created, I realized this is exactly why I urge my students to create their own quiet kind of altar to represent the desires of their hearts. An altar has the power to create that little extra focal point to keep your personal goals in mind.

I suggest the display be “quiet” because an altar does not have to be blatantly religious unless that is what you want. For example if you have other folks in your home they may not always agree with your ideas of a supreme power or divine help. A statue of Buddha or picture of Mother Mary could offend others and take away the energy you wish to create.

You might want to create an altar that portrays your desire to have healing for a loved one. In that instance the altar can be as simple as a photo of that loved one placed on a green cloth with a lovely candle. You might want to include a painting of a rainbow filled sky or any other picture that gives you the feeling of using the power of divine energy.

Designing and portraying your desires in that way turns what might have been perceived as a very blatant altar into a simple lovely display. Nothing is removed from the power of your desire by using an altar that doesn’t appear to others to be an altar. It is just a lovely decoration and cannot offend. The energy still creates what you want; in other words, it continually reminds you of your desired result. It maintains your focus every time you pass your special altar.

Perhaps one of your desires is to attract the right employment for yourself. Think about what the tools of the trade would be and use that kind of picture. It could be a photo of someone creating with a computer, drawing an architectural design or running a lawnmower depending on your desire to be employed or to create your own business. You might add photos of hundred dollar bills to see money flowing into you as the result of your employment.

With any altar always be sure to include your illustrated idea of accessing a supreme divine power as well. I have a favorite photo of a gold beam of sunlight penetrating the clouds and touching the top of the mountain. To me that beam comes from the highest power. It reminds me to call upon the highest and best for anything I desire.

Consider now what you want to add or change in your life and begin to create your own reminders. You can change your own altar as many times as you wish. It may stand for weeks or just days as your desires are fulfilled or as you change your focus. Your personal altars will work according to the intensity of your focus and belief.

My wish for you is the productive happy life your desire for yourself.

Reverend Lois Cheney

www.ArkansasPsychicMedium.com

RevLois@gmail.com

 

 

WHAT IF____?

What if you just arrived on planet earth today? What if some great creative force brought you here with a male or female human body but without any mental or emotional pattern or instructions? Imagine yourself with the ultimate in life choices and ability to design.

Imagine yourself with no human father, mother or relatives, in other words no patterns you had to follow, no “must have” hereditary gifts!

If that were the case, would you decide to be healthy or sick. Would you decide to enjoy your life or spend it in self-inflicted misery?

You wouldn’t need to be angry like your father because there was no father pattern to follow. You wouldn’t need to be fat like your grandmother because you had no grandmother pattern.

If there were no patterns, you could make your life the most beautiful desirable life that ever was. You could use all the talents you could dream of. Your mind would be open to your personal programs.

Why do I propose such a scenario? My belief is that what we repeatedly tell ourselves about our birth into a particular family, what we emotionally reinforce as certain inherited traits is much stronger than any actual heredity from our lineage. We do not need to amplify the negatives!

Each and every one of us, every individual on earth today, can elect to change their beliefs this minute. Today is the day to decide who you will be right now and all the incoming tomorrows. You have the right to choose! Why not start your new pattern today? Construct that exciting, beautiful scenario for yourself now.

Positive emotionally reinforced beliefs can override any and all negative appearing heredity. Belief is everything. Your mind and emotions are that strong! You can redesign your life one belief at a time starting in this moment.

If you could use a little extra help in overcoming some of your long held beliefs or fears just call me. With hypnosis I can help you redesign some negative thinking into a better way of life. As a certified clinical hypnotist I have helped many clients through difficult circumstances.

Call or e-mail today for an appointment or with any questions: Rev. Lois Cheney, 928-300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

MINING YOUR DREAMS FOR GOLD

MINING YOUR DREAMS FOR GOLD

It makes sense to me that each one of us would like to take the simpler more direct route to achieving our life goals. If we can achieve our soul’s purpose, our true reason for being and incarnating at this time, without following a lot of blind alleys, I believe a positive simple method would surely be our preference.

Yet it often feels that earth is a difficult school to master. In pursuing our desired accomplishments unfortunately it seems we need to stumble here and there and occasionally metaphorically fall flat on our faces. It definitely would be positive and satisfying for us if there were a way to go an easier more productive roadway while using our talents and accomplishing our intended results.

This need or desire for accomplishing our goals with ease and simplicity is where our dreams can be of great help. Our dreams can assist in so many ways. In dreams we can literally try out different approaches without spending needless time and effort on solutions that will not or cannot work. Instead of our usual exhaustive way of trying first this way and then that possibility, through our dreams we can find a way to hone in on the most effective pathway without much time or physical effort.

How can we encourage our dreams to work for us and with us in our efforts? To solicit the required help from your personal dream maker it is necessary to convince your dream creator that you are truly interested and grateful for its help. One of the simple ways of showing your gratitude is to keep a dream journal with as much detail as you can recall from each dream. If you journal in a regular fashion you will find that your dreams occur with greater regularity while becoming more detailed and offering much helpful advice. By journaling and making an effort to understand the messages contained in the dreams, you are really saying to your dream composer “thank you, your help is appreciated. I am ready to receive more of your insight”.

When you are faced with important decisions concerning a particular desire, it is good to write in great detail what you wish to accomplish. Having done that you can read the details aloud to your dream self as you prepare to sleep. You can put into your one way conversation with the dream maker as much detail as you wish concerning the desired solution. Another helpful way to pave the way for important answers also is to say aloud “Tonight I will dream, remember and record the correct solution to this problem situation.

From time to time I have had clients say to me that they do not wish to remember dreams because they have had one or more nightmares. I say congratulations because a nightmare is a dramatic way of pointing out what you are ignoring in the daytime hours, something that really requires your attention. A nightmare can be the very best thing because it opens your eyes to an important issue requiring your investigation and probably decisive action.

Occasionally I have had clients insist that they simply never dream.  Of course that is not true. What is true is that they are not remembering their dreams. We all dream multiple times through our night’s sleep.

How do you become more conscious of your dreams in order to remember as much detail as possible? That is fairly simple. First when you feel yourself starting to wake from sleep, do not move your body and do not open your eyes. Remain in the position you were lying in with your eyes closed.

Next without moving, search your mind to identify your last thought, sight or feeling. Perhaps you only saw color. Perhaps you felt heat or cold. You might remember a sound or fragrance. As you started to wake were you full of a particular emotion: joy, fear, anticipation? Did you interact with other people or animals in the dream scene?

No matter how miniscule your memory of the dream, write down as much as you can without worrying or analyzing those fragments to see whether they make sense or even if they are spelled right! Start with the last thing you remember, then what came before that in the dream and what came before that! This is not the time to start analyzing or working on the message, just remember as much as you can and then save it. Putting your memories on paper or on a recording device will allow other parts of the dream to come back to you throughout the day.

Do not judge yourself for not immediately being able to put together every dream in its entirety. With continual work using this process night after night you will find yourself remembering much more easily and with greater detail.

When you have saved ten or more dreams you may wish to begin looking for repetitive patterns in the dreams. Patterns can reveal and highlight parts of the meaningful messages. It is helpful to note if any of the dreams have similar emotions, settings or locations, the same people or other repeating aspects.

At this point you might start your dream symbol dictionary. For instance, my daughter felt that the sight of me breaking an egg on my third eye in a dream meant hatching a new idea! If you look carefully at any repetition in dreams you will have your own symbols coming to your attention. In days past for instance when I saw two white dogs and one black dog the dream was really focusing on the mindset of my two stepchildren and had nothing to do with dogs at all!

We all have symbols that mean something special to us as individuals. How do you feel about a dream that contains distant steeples, black cats, toilets (if you are not a plumber!), the second story of a dark home, a shovel. The list could go on and on. What is true is that your feeling or dream interpretation of any of these items would be different than mine. That is why your dream symbol dictionary could reveal a lot of meaning for you.

I wish you many nights and days of happy dreaming! I am always ready to help you with your life challenges. All appointments are strictly confidential whether in person or by telephone. Call today Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030.

www.ArkansasPsychicMedium.com

RevLois@gmail.com

 

THE RIGHT ONE!

THE RIGHT MAN, THE RIGHT WOMAN?

As a psychic I am frequently asked is this new love or friend the “right” one for me. Usually followed by another question: will it last. Tricky questions only because we tend to attract to ourselves those people that we need to learn from and not so much the ones that are easy to be with and enjoy. We attract to us a man or woman who has something to teach us. That is not always a fun or pleasantly exciting experience.

If we are “shopping” for a soul mate it is wise to decide before taking the plunge what sort of person we need to be or what we need to heal in ourselves in order to attract the sort of person we desire. Are we clouding or limiting our opportunities by not addressing one of our own overriding (not so pleasant) personality traits.  In other words to make an example of the extreme: if we are into ourselves so much that we could be called excessively selfish, we need not expect to find an open and generous soulmate.

To have a happy “coupling” we many times need to spend time working on ourselves. If we are happy with ourselves and our interactions with others, chances are other folks will notice and be attracted. It comes back to being honest, kind and friendly.

Then there is the obvious stuff: If he likes to sky dive and you are afraid of heights! If she wants to live in Hawaii and you only like the desert. Best step away! Physical attraction is great but if that is all there is… Metaphorically none of us really like to fall head first in the mud.

Having said all of that about relationships, as a psychic, yes, I can tell you whether a particular relationship has the prospect of lasting for an appreciable length of time. I can go even further and delve into whether it will be satisfying for either or both of you. If you want to know  I can see if you have shared past lives as well.

For those of you who are still wandering, wondering or just plain looking, I suggest you try something brand new, an adventure! For instance have you tried an oil painting class? Could you learn competition swimming? In other words get into different environments, meet different people with differing ideas. Sometimes we seem to get stuck in our repetitive activities and never encounter a new idea or a new person. Get innovative. See what and who might be “out there”.

We all like feeling comfortable, at ease, but a little innovation caused discomfort can push us to see things in a different and maybe better light. There is always more than one way to solve or investigate anything in life. Have fun. Try something new. Enjoy the ride.

If you would like accurate answers to any of your life questions, I am ready to help. Call or e-mail now. I will work for you by telephone or at my home in my beautiful healing room in south Rogers Arkansas.

Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

DECISIONS AND “THE HEART SCALE”

DECISIONS AND “THE HEART SCALE”
Throughout your day you make various decisions. You move forward, take an action on one task and discard or ignore another. Some of your decisions are minor and of little importance. It seems obvious for instance that little impact comes from choosing one breakfast cereal over another.

On the other hand certain types of decisions can have a more life altering affect. It is those decisions that change the course of your personal history that I wish to address today.

For example, it could be that you feel the need to move out of or drop a personal relationship. It is possible that another rather “foreign” or possibly untried geographic location seems to be calling you. Perhaps a major employment change is being offered away from your current comfort zone.

Larger, deeper and definite positive choices of that kind can open up your life path; give you a greater view of growth-filled possibilities. Unfortunately poor or negative choices can detour your goals, or lead to a number of dead ends.

Those major choices that you make determine how engaged you will be with your own physical and spiritual progress. In fact some decisions have so great an impact that they can determine the course of the rest of your life.

I do not say these things to put you on guard or to frighten you, but rather to offer you another way of making decisions.

This final extra or additional method is to be used only when you have done all the usual homework regarding a particular challenge. It is to be used only when you have looked at the facts, consulted with your spirit guides, masters, and high self. Then is the time to use one more measure!

Let me preface this explanation of the method by saying that I believe strongly in LOVE’S WISDOM. When there are several choices facing me, I choose the way dictated by Love. Love always offers the highest and best to me and the highest and best to any others who may be affected by my decision.

Then here is what I call the HEART SCALE for your use: Close your eyes. Think, feel or imagine that directly in front of you is your personal Heart Scale. It is an upright scale similar to one that might be used to weigh fruits or vegetables. If it helps, you can color the scale pink, gold or any loving color that appeals to you.

When you have that vision firmly in place, imagine further that the large digital scale numbers read from 1 to 10. Ten is the highest and most positive. Now, drop your decision on that scale and see what number IMMEDIATELY flashes on the scale. If you take more than 2 seconds to read the number, you have left your heart decision and moved, or deferred to, your mind or rational thinking decision.

This is a very accurate measure of how your heart and love center feel about any particular decision as long as you make an immediate reading of the number. If you cannot succeed with the instant reading the first time, set the technique aside for awhile and try again.

One of the reasons for using the Heart Scale is to override our human tendency to lie to ourselves about some issues. This tendency comes into play when we feel acknowledging our own deep truth will lead us to making big and sometimes scary changes.

Many times we tend to try to avoid large shifts in our beliefs. We feel we need to be “right” rather than accept and actively pursue what is actually good for us.

I hope you will try this technique. Have fun with it. Make it joyful because your heart wants to be joyful!
Reverend Lois Cheney
(928)300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

HUMAN “BEANS”

When my son was little, about 3 or 4 years old, he used to refer to us people as human “beans”. In a way I think that was a good term for us as humans because just like the other kind of beans we need the proper watering and fertilizing to grow to our full potential.

Each one of us is born with certain talents and abilities but if our belief in our selves (our fertilizer) is missing, we fail to grow, blossom and produce fruit. In other words, we fail to ignite our valuable potential.

Each of us has a dream about what we wish we could do or be. It is my feeling that the mere presence of that personal dream or wish is an indication of our own untapped potential. As a certified clinical hypnotherapist one way that I am able to help someone to access their abilities is through hypnosis to strengthen their belief in themselves, their self-esteem.

It probably sounds overly simplistic but the truth is if you believe in your own possibilities, you will begin taking one little action step at a time to accomplish your goal. The action may be as simple as reading about your particular subject of interest or taking a weekly class to gain knowledge. Whatever you do will bring you closer to seeing the next step and the step after that until you begin to feel the joy that comes from accomplishment.

There will always be handfuls of reasons why you can’t or shouldn’t. Your family or friends won’t approve. Perhaps the world isn’t ready for you or your idea!

Fortunately there are at least an equal number of reasons why you should develop your personal heart’s ambition. Before we arrive here on earth all of us are “seeded” with so many capabilities, so many positive directions. It is up to each one of us to accept the challenge and use what we have been given.

When we are truly using what we have, so many beautiful opportunities are presented to us. We begin to grow and expand in ways that may never have even occurred to us to try if we had not taken a “chance” and explored all of our options and possibilities.

On a personal note, some years ago just on a “whim” I bought a set of chakra tuning forks. That purchase led to a wonderfully effective practice of sound, color and gemstone healings for my clients. Was it a whim or was it my high self or guides whispering to my heart? Whatever spirit led me I say thank you!! I am so grateful that I listened.

Now it is your turn to follow your personal dream. Don’t let anything stop you; not the thoughts or opinions of others, not your age, not your location, not anything. Know that you have my blessing to honor your full potential. I see you going full steam ahead!

If I can help you with a personal consultation or hypnosis call or e-mail for your private appointment.
Rev. Lois Cheney 928-300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

ASK FOR WHAT YOU WANT

Have you ever settled for something less than what you really wanted, your heart’s desire, simply because you were afraid to ask for too much or to ask too big? Did you request less because you felt you were only entitled to a little bit of satisfaction or happiness instead of receiving your much larger true wish?

Why do we shy away from revealing our heart’s desires even to ourselves? Perhaps it is something we learned as children: “You can’t have that. That is just for grownups.” “You always want your way. You can’t have everything.” “Why aren’t you ever satisfied?” Then there is the real clincher: “You know we can’t afford that!”

Where ever it began; our personal reluctance to ask for what our soul desires, and our soul truly needs, whatever triggered that resistance to complete fulfillment, we need to change. We need to change now.

We are grownups. We are here working in the earth environment to learn. In order to learn as much as we can, we need to be honest about the tools and help we require. A bit of dissatisfaction with the status quo of our lives and some lack of progress there in, is a very good thing! Be motivated to expand and change. You have the power to move forward.

When we hide the desires of our heart from ourselves as well as from our loved ones, we cheat ourselves by limiting our ability to progress. Each of us has wonderful abilities and talents that are a part of our life path pattern placed within us for our personal progression. Be proud of your own unique qualities and ideas. We all need to use our gifts. We need to shine!

Setting our goals too low simply causes a kind of inner confusion. Our subconscious wants to work for us. It wants to bring us successfully to our goals but when we vacillate it doesn’t know what to do. Even though we realize we need this thing or that, we ask for less or we change our minds going back and forth. Our willing helper, our loyal subconscious, is confused by our lack of consistent focus.

In addition to the availability of profound guidance from our own soul, high self or I Am presence we each have angels, guides, teachers and masters who are with us. They are eager to help. Of course, no matter how stuck we seem to be, they never interfere. We must ask directly for their help. If we will ask honestly and directly we will receive the exact direction and assistance we need.

If you are somehow feeling you don’t deserve the best or if your real desires seem too large, then considering enlarging your point of view. When lack of self-esteem is holding you back from trying for your highest desires, I can help you. When I offer your subconscious mind positive moving-forward thoughts through hypnosis, you will begin to see new courage and belief in your own abilities.You will know that nothing is too wonderful for you to desire and acquire. Your life can be a grand adventure!

I wish you the very best life. If I can help you in any way call for your personal appointment. We will meet in a special healing room in my private home in Prescott AZ in Diamond Valley.  I am available most days and early evenings.

Call 928-300-2030 or E-Mail RevLois@gmail.com