Tag Archives: FEELINGS

GENEROUS LOVING PEOPLE

Every once in a while life hands you a truly happy surprise. Yesterday was one of those days. At first it didn’t seem happy at all. It all began when I found myself having to stop at the Honda dealership because my car was developing a bit of a belly ache. Not a good thing on a red hot Florida afternoon. Adding to my discomfort was that my little dog Booboo was with me and had to be taken care of while we waited for an automotive diagnosis. I love her but she is a curious restless little critter.

The two of us, Booboo and me, sat in the customer lounge while I browsed magazines. Across the way was a gentleman munching a shiny red apple. Booboo was transfixed. Finally I said laughingly to him “Booboo is drooling on your apple”. Of course she wasn’t really but truth was her attention didn’t waiver for a minute.

The friendly fellow laughed and with a smile told me there was another apple on the snack counter. I thanked him and said I should probably go get it. He went back to looking at his cell phone. But in just a minute or so he looked up again and offered to get an apple for me.

He was back in a short time. The apple was wet and it was obvious that he had gone to the extra trouble of washing it for us.

Happily Booboo and I shared that apple. Yes it was “just an apple” but how thoughtful that a stranger cared enough to be kind and go out of his way for us. It took the sting out of car problems and put my energy where it belonged: in gratitude. There is always a blessing close by if we bother to look.

Rev. Lois Cheney

Sarasota-Psychic-Medium.com

RevLois@gmail.com

HEALTHY HAPPY ANIMALS!

Since the early 1970’s I have been helping animal lovers with their questions and concerns about all sorts of pets and horses. With animals it is very easy for me to “tune in”. In generality animals are very open and direct in telling me their needs and desires.

For instance my little dog is not at all shy about giving me a rough talking-to when I change one too many things in her environment! “Bring back my other pillow! This one is too flat to sit on.”

I have talked at a distance with gerbils, cats, dogs, parakeets, just all sorts of critters. Their owners call me because their animals are experiencing behavioral challenges or eating disorders or physical problems. By tuning in and asking a few direct questions of the animal, it becomes fairly easy for me to find a solution to their discomfort.

Some time ago I was able to diagnose and send healing energy to a horse who was becoming increasingly lame because of a previously unknown ankle injury. The effect of the energy was very positive and required no further work from the veterinarian.

Often with animals there can be a food problem. A particular diet may have worked fine for a length of time and then changes need to be made. It can be as simple as a need for more variety or allergies may have occurred.

 I remember one client’s cat who was quite upset over the fact her owner had changed the brand of tuna she had become accustomed to. Apparently the taste wasn’t quite the same!

When a change occurs in the home environment such as one family member moving away or a totally new residence, animals can “act out”. Depending on the animal and its needs, many different solutions can be found to eliminate their anxiety.

I enjoy my work with people and their animal friends. If you or your animals need a little help just call or e-mail for an appointment. Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com.

LIVE NOW!

You and I are living in a time of sweeping changes. At times here on earth the economy, world governments, everything and everyone seems to be in flux. On a more personal level many of us have been aghast as we watched our finances tank. Some of us watched our relationships crash and burn. A few of us felt helpless as our physical health begin teetering on the brink.

There is good news however. You do not need to identify yourself by your current but passing experiences.

You do not need to call yourself “broke” because you are temporarily without the funds you would like to have.

You do not have to feel “loveless” or “deserted” just because one or two friends or even a spouse walked away.

You do not need to label yourself “sick” because your body is hurting here or there. Why make it worse by announcing to everyone you meet that you are feeling bad?

What you need to do is quite the opposite. With as much enthusiasm as you can muster you need to begin seeing yourself as a wonderful positive creator and manifestor of each of your now moments and your future destiny.

You know that you are made of Light. You are made of Love. You can do or be anything you choose.

You need to begin seeing yourself with all the abundance you could ever need or want. Know that you have more than enough money to spare and to share. Affirm that you are rich. Declare that each one of your financial desires or needs is instantly met.

Furthermore, today you must acknowledge that you are not only loved but loving. The very earth embraces you. Be grateful and appreciate the wonder of love that you are. Daily with gratitude and thankfulness you need to send that love forward to others from the depths of your being. That love you send out will rush back to you magnified a thousand times.

Believe that every nerve and cell in the body is continually healthy and regenerating because in truth it is. Appreciate the gift of overflowing health. Be grateful for it. Send that appreciation and gratefulness to each and every one of your physical organs. Send loving thankfulness to your heart, your lungs, your skin. They are alive. They will hear and respond with increased health.

Possessing your own personal human body is a wonderful gift from Spirit. Why? Because if you will really look at your human body and the life you are leading with that body you can see the results of your emotional and mental handiwork. You will have visual proof of what you believe, what you think about and what you feel.

This body of yours, this life you are experiencing, is your canvas. You paint on it day by day, hour by hour. You make it drab or colorful. You make it happy or sad. It is your lessons, your workbook and your test.

There is no need for you to mirror the past. Whether the past is five minutes past or fifteen years past, let it go. Manifest what you have always dreamed of now, today. Your soul is standing by ready to help.

Habitual thoughts, habitual emotions, habitual attitudes and habitual actions can be your finest friends or your most terrifying and destructive enemies. If any habit of yours is bringing unhappiness and grief into your life experience change that habit today.

When you become aware of a dark and gloomy daydream making its home in your mind do this: say to that thought “This is not my story!” Say it again. “This is not my story.” Push that thought form away from you.

Of course, you realize that anytime you create an empty spot, a mental vacuum, you must fill it. So go directly to the beautiful happy picture you want. Play your wonderful heartfelt dream over and over until there is no room for the gloom. Play it with sound, color, fragrance any additives you can think or imagine but make it real.

In all aspects you have the power to be brand new today. For instance, we know for certain that each day many of the cells of your body are replaced, made new. Why not allow those new cells to be truly new instead of mere replications of yesterday?

You have the power to change your experience and your body by replacing any habitual negative thinking with positive, growth filled thinking!

If you feel it would help, try falling back on what has worked for you before: the affirmations, the prayers, any positive literature. Begin to wipe your slate clean of any miss qualified energies. Then fill those newly empty spaces with the thoughts and feelings of your soul’s heartfelt desires.

Let the negative mental pathways go. See and feel with positive intent only. In other words, begin to carve new mental and emotional roadways to your personal success.

You have the power and you are in charge. Decide to open your energy receptors to the most enlightened thinking you can create. Throw away any self limits. You do not need limitations of any kind. Tell yourself that you are open to all good things.

What others think or believe about you need not affect you in the slightest. BE AWARE THAT THOSE ENERGIES THAT WILL ALWAYS AFFECT YOU ARE YOUR OWN. The seeds you plant moment to moment are shaping your life. Fear, gratitude, love, resistance all of these are seeds, emotional and mental seeds that will grow and become visible manifestations in your life.

If there is any appearance in your life that you do not like decide to change the attitude, thought or feeling that brought it to you. Truly look at what you are sending out on a daily basis. You are your words and thoughts. Replace your beliefs and you will replace the effects.

A few days ago I read about Meagan Bilodeau. Meagan is an 8 year old girl who put a message in a bottle while her family was enjoying a vacation on a cruise ship near Bermuda. She wrote a note including her phone number asking whoever found the bottle to “please, please, please” let her know. Doesn’t that sound like an 8 year old?

Her father told her to toss the bottle over the side of the cruise ship into the Atlantic Ocean. He believed that her message would probably drift on the currents to Europe and hopefully be found there.

That was not what happened. Meagan was delighted when she received a phone call from another little girl, 10 years old, who found the bottle only 15 miles from Meagan’s home in Falmouth Massachusetts. In other words instead of following the natural ocean currents the bottle with her note seemingly followed the strong energy of Meagan’s “please, please, please” desire.

There is a great deal of TRUTH hiding in that result. Everything we do, everything we say, think or feel always “follows us home.” For that reason alone it pays each of us to be aware of what we are giving to the current of life.

The energy each of us emits tends to grow or amplify and return in a strong recognizable form. Where the results of our lives are concerned there simply are no secret thoughts or hidden agendas.

The good news is that we each contain the ability to change. We can redirect the most negative and ingrained energy to new more positive paths. Nothing is incurable. Every so called personal flaw can be brought to the Light.

You have at your disposal today all the energy you will ever need to create the life you were born to express and enjoy. You have no limits! Take charge of your thinking and your emotions. You have the right and the ability to bring about your own idea of perfection whatever it may be and—WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE, YOU ARE RIGHT!

I am Reverend Lois Cheney wishing for you the most beautiful life you can dream or imagine. My joy is helping clients to attain their goals by providing accurate and detailed information for overcoming challenges and amplifying the quality of their lives.

I welcome you to contact me for your personal reading appointment. In your private session your guides, angels and I will address any area of your life that concerns you. Bring all your questions! You will receive a complete cassette recording of your reading for your later review.

Reverend Lois Cheney, (928)300-2030, RevLois@gmail.com 

THE RIGHT ONE!

THE RIGHT MAN, THE RIGHT WOMAN?

As a psychic I am frequently asked is this new love or friend the “right” one for me. Usually followed by another question: will it last. Tricky questions only because we tend to attract to ourselves those people that we need to learn from and not so much the ones that are easy to be with and enjoy. We attract to us a man or woman who has something to teach us. That is not always a fun or pleasantly exciting experience.

If we are “shopping” for a soul mate it is wise to decide before taking the plunge what sort of person we need to be or what we need to heal in ourselves in order to attract the sort of person we desire. Are we clouding or limiting our opportunities by not addressing one of our own overriding (not so pleasant) personality traits.  In other words to make an example of the extreme: if we are into ourselves so much that we could be called excessively selfish, we need not expect to find an open and generous soulmate.

To have a happy “coupling” we many times need to spend time working on ourselves. If we are happy with ourselves and our interactions with others, chances are other folks will notice and be attracted. It comes back to being honest, kind and friendly.

Then there is the obvious stuff: If he likes to sky dive and you are afraid of heights! If she wants to live in Hawaii and you only like the desert. Best step away! Physical attraction is great but if that is all there is… Metaphorically none of us really like to fall head first in the mud.

Having said all of that about relationships, as a psychic, yes, I can tell you whether a particular relationship has the prospect of lasting for an appreciable length of time. I can go even further and delve into whether it will be satisfying for either or both of you. If you want to know  I can see if you have shared past lives as well.

For those of you who are still wandering, wondering or just plain looking, I suggest you try something brand new, an adventure! For instance have you tried an oil painting class? Could you learn competition swimming? In other words get into different environments, meet different people with differing ideas. Sometimes we seem to get stuck in our repetitive activities and never encounter a new idea or a new person. Get innovative. See what and who might be “out there”.

We all like feeling comfortable, at ease, but a little innovation caused discomfort can push us to see things in a different and maybe better light. There is always more than one way to solve or investigate anything in life. Have fun. Try something new. Enjoy the ride.

If you would like accurate answers to any of your life questions, I am ready to help. Call or e-mail now. I will work for you by telephone or at my home in my beautiful healing room in south Rogers Arkansas.

Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

HELLO ARKANSAS!

HELLO ARKANSAS!
The last time I lived in Arkansas was 7 or 8 years ago. I had a lovely home in Bella Vista Arkansas. Now I have an equally beautiful home in Rogers Arkansas. I am thrilled to be living in an area that feels like home to me.

Also it is important to me to be near the Ozark Research Institute in Fayetteville for which I am a member and presenter. No more long plane rides just to arrive at the center!

After working at my Rogers home on the “special healing room” I am completely ready to welcome new clients. I took some extra time with furnishing and decorating just to be sure that anyone who comes for a consultation would feel as much happy warming energy as I could create.

Every large geographic move seems to require a new web address as well. Soon www.ArkansasPsychicHypnotist.com and www.ArkansasPsychicMedium.com will be up and running. Special thanks go to my daughter who handles all the technical “stuff”.

Today I invite new and former clients to call or e-mail to schedule their personal private sessions conducted in person or by telephone. My cell phone remains the same: 928-300-2030 and I still have RevLois@gmail.com.

CLOTHES IN THE CLOSET


Yes, at last after all the home renovations I am able to open the bedroom closet and see my old familiar clothes “friends” with me here in Rogers Arkansas. Why is that important? It is mostly because Jake, Booboo and I moved our home base from the far west of Arizona to the heartland of northwest Arkansas.

Nothing seems to settle me down like having familiar things around me. In this case it was my shoes, dresses and sweaters. Opening the closet door and having my red jacket smiling back at me was pure delight. Of course after all the unpacking and reorganizing our little dog Booboo is especially happy to enjoy her usual bed, treats and toys.

When you consider it, most of us are operating on habitual expectations. We depend on the familiar. We have certain firmly held beliefs. We expect to know which cupboard, which drawer holds the knives and forks without a lot of searching. We hold a memory card for that specific location. Also depending on traffic lights as we travel, we know to stop the car without a lot of thought about what a red light means.

In general habit serves us very well indeed until we cease looking at some aspects of it. When we make decisions on life’s recurring issues by merely following what we always do in similar situations, we may cut off some more positive options.

The actions we take may be on seemingly small problems but unfortunately everything we do affects something or someone else. It pays to open up our thinking to allow that there is almost always more than one solution to any challenge.

I was teaching an intuitive development class for the college in Arizona when one of my students asked me to give her a method for forcing her coworker to agree with her own firmly held plan of action. She wanted to mentally force her coworker to see the “right” way. I suggested that just possibly there was more than one way of resolving the problem, more than one possible solution. I guess I was too forceful because my student didn’t return!

Habit many times serves us well. All I am suggesting is that sometimes we need to consider some of our more imbedded habits and automatic reactions. It is good to see if a certain familiar path has lost its usefulness. Occasionally we might catch ourselves using outdated solutions we used as children which no longer work in our adult world.

As a certified clinical hypnotist I am often asked to “reframe” ideas, those old knee jerk reactions and habits for a client. The subconscious mind will do anything for you given the right instructions. Hypnosis is a reliable way of imbedding those new instructions. With the deep meditative state accessed through hypnosis you always have the option of creating a new improved neural pathway for more positive results.

Call for more information on how I might help you achieve your goals. Rev. Lois Cheney 928-300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

PAINFUL MEMORIES?


If memories from your past are causing you pain today, perhaps it’s time to make some changes. Some of your memories may be tied to relatives or friends who have long since passed. Other memories might be connected to people who are unreachable at this time. It could be some personal action you took or some words you would like to retrieve. Whatever the memory, it can be changed.

I was fortunate in the early 70’s to study with Jose Silva. His course in Mind Control was really a training in self hypnosis. One of the topics in that course was Memory Relief. The object was to take any unhappy memory into the deep levels of your consciousness and begin to tweek it, to adjust it. One little change at a time was “re-remembered” until the inflicted soreness dissolved. This technique was not intended to change anyone else, just to change your personal memory of the event. It hurt no one and freed you from that yoke of pain.

The point of all that adjusting was to reaffirm the fact that the event itself could do no further harm, only the irritating memory was causing the current problem. Let’s take an example. Perhaps the memory that bothers you today is like one of mine from many years ago when I was a little child. I misunderstood something my mother said when she drove us to the old neighborhood. She had some business to tend and she told me it was o.k. to visit my nearby friend.

I believed I had to wait for her to come back to the car before I could see that little friend who was so special to me. I didn’t understand. She expected I would visit while she was busy with her task. When she returned to find me still sitting there, she said it was too late. We had to go back home. My five year old heart was nearly broken.

This may seem to be a small, unimportant memory, but no memory that still causes an ache in your heart is unimportant. In this instance, a memory of that kind can cause an ongoing fear of loss in much more important present day scenarios. Childhood memories can be quite crippling.

Now, as an adult, I can take that memory into my creative consciousness and begin to see the action differently. One bit at a time it can be changed. First, I tell myself that I understand what mother wants. I promise to be quick, to not keep her waiting. Then I hurry down the street to my friend’s door and enter for a visit. The two of us share a giggle and I look at her new toys. I feel it is time to go. I hurry back to the car just as mother comes down the street.

This same technique can be applied gradually to much more serious memories with good results. My late husband was a skilled hypnotist. He worked with one client at a time to help change and heal the varied problems of their lives. I was lucky enough to observe the changes in a number of his patients. Those people he treated would many times drop the depression that had darkened their lives for years. It didn’t matter whether their memories of the past were real or had been simply over embellished and strengthened through the years, they still would yield to positive change. Through a bit of occasional reinforcement the resulting change would become permanent.

The importance of working with and changing unhappy memories cannot be over stated. I never suggest wiping out a memory. Memory “removal” is likely to become suppression and cause even greater harm. The gentle, effective way, is just one positive change at a time. Something that is “just a memory” needs to be addressed because it can cause physical disability as well as emotional and mental stress.

Taking responsibility for our memories, changing them for the better in this way, means not needing to blame anyone or anything for our own recreating of similar events in our lives now. We can stop the cycle and the repetition. It means filling our days and nights with the new joy and peace we can think and imagine today, not reliving the consequences of what we felt or suffered in the past. We can take full responsibility and enjoy a happier more fulfilling life.

Will you give me the chance to help you with your life challenges? Call today for an appointment for your clinical hypnosis. I am Reverend Lois Cheney, telephone (928)300-2030, RevLois@gmail.com

Who Was I!

Who Was I?
Your personal past life experiences can have a profound effect on your life today. Those effects can manifest positively or negatively and can be physical, emotional or mental. They may indicate a profound talent or an unexplained pain and disability.

The good news is that if you want to make positive changes in your life experience today, a past life exploration with the help of hypnosis can do just that for you. As a certified clinical hypnotherapist I have been able to help many people to access their past experiences.

It does not matter how long ago any particular life experience has been. It might be centuries ago, just 100 years ago, whatever the length of time that has past, akashic records will open for you. Interestingly, your chakras and all the cells of your body also hold past memories. Your subconscious mind when it is allowed to come forward through hypnosis, will reach out to wherever those memories exist and bring them to your conscious awareness.

You can amplify talents that you developed long ago and use those talents today. Were you a successful author, a fantastic ballerina, the best archer? Do you want to use some of those techniques to-day?

In addition your subconscious or “high-self” can also promote healing of the trauma of physical injuries that were your past experience as well as help with healing fears and phobias stemming from past events.

Hypnosis can be applied with great success to many troublesome situations in your life today. The great thing is that you needn’t continue to fear or be in needless pain. Even better is working with hypnosis can access your ability to move forward on your life path with boundless energy and fresh unique approaches.

Call for your private appointment today!
Reverend Lois Cheney
(928)300-2030

WORDS, THOUGHTS, EMOTIONS

What would you like to change in your experience? Could it be as simple as changing what you have said to yourself and your friends over and over again?

Consider what I have said and thought for years: “Every time, every month when it is the full moon I just can’t sleep. I feel like a prowling animal. Oh dear, I just know I will be awake half of the night!”

What if instead I decided to repeat something different, turning the idea inside out, flipping it over, putting it in reverse. “Oh, the full moon is on the rise. I just can’t wait. You know every time the moon is full I feel as if I am bathed in a silken blanket of shimmering white light! Bring it on Mr. Moon. I love your radiance. You comfort me. I enjoy the best sleep when you are full. I rest as deeply as a sleeping peaceful baby.”

Could it be that all of us have told ourselves things that we truly don’t want? Could changing our thoughts and words make a difference?

Perhaps your often said phrase goes something like this: “Oh what am I going to do. Aunt Tilly is visiting again. I hope she doesn’t stay long. Every visit of hers just makes me angry and sick. Her ideas are crazy. I know I’ll have to go to bed by the time she leaves!”

O.K., what about this instead: “Aunt Tilly! Isn’t she just a piece of work. She and her off the wall ideas make me smile and laugh inside. I wonder what she has come up with this time. I can’t wait to hear her carry on. I just know I will laugh till my sides hurt after she leaves. I get such a kick out of her. Her antics put a smile on my face. She knows no bounds and no barriers. Oh, to be that free. What an imagination!”

Sometimes we are so much more powerful than we realize. Try taking just one of your “oft-said” ideas or words and rewrite the script. You never know. You might be missing a whole lot of fun and positive dynamic change.

What will your new experience be?

I AM …..?

What energy are you sending out today? What are you telling yourself, or others, about yourself?
Are you telling your world “I am strong” or “I am weak”? Are you saying “I am certain” or “I am confused”?
Do you chastise and degrade yourself with words like “stupid,” “foolish” or “why would I do something that silly”? Or are you praising your actions “well done,” “that was good,” “I am proud of the result”?

Whatever words you are telling yourself, those words are either true right now, this minute, or they soon will be. The reason is simply because you are declaring it! You have set your creativity into motion. You have that much power at your command!

Choose wisely when you speak or think “I am _ _ _”. Your words and thoughts are important and matter more than you may think. Your faithful subconscious is always listening, always believing anything and everything that you say. Your subconscious is your obedient servant and will begin at once to make your words true.

If you seek more abundance in your life, cease all talk about indebtedness. Speak instead of opportunities. Be openly happy when others succeed. Praise their accomplishments. Acknowledge your own success as well. Wish abundance for everyone and yours will soon make its appearance.

If you desire greater health, stop complaining about any aches or pains. Talk instead of how much enjoyment you gain from your new exercise regimen. Tell yourself and others that you feel better every day. “I enjoy life. I feel great.” Keep at those words until they are true!

Speak and think only the words that represent what you truly wish to manifest in your life. Use your strong emotion to amplify your desires. See and feel the reality of your wishes from the very depths of your soul.

Think only the highest and best, and the highest and best people, places and situations will be drawn to you with the strength of a powerful magnet. Always remember that you are creating your life experience, one word, one thought and one feeling at a time.
Your are in charge of your own powerful energy. At any moment that you choose, you are capable of dynamic, positive change. Decide today to be in control of your thoughts and words.

Build the life that you deserve. Be definite about what you wish. Today and every day, declare your life to be the very best, not only for your good, but for the good of all those who are directly concerned or affected by your life path.“I am healthy, energetic and happy. I am loved and loving. I am prosperous and generous.”

From my heart to yours: May today and every day find you blessing others and being blessed by others. May your life be a blessing to all. I wish for each one of you the spirit-filled, uplifted life that I wish for myself. If I can help you in any way, please call for a private spirit directed psychic reading. I am Reverend Lois, Prescott, Arizona 928-300-2030