Category Archives: HEART DESIRES

HEALTHY HAPPY ANIMALS!

Since the early 1970’s I have been helping animal lovers with their questions and concerns about all sorts of pets and horses. With animals it is very easy for me to “tune in”. In generality animals are very open and direct in telling me their needs and desires.

For instance my little dog is not at all shy about giving me a rough talking-to when I change one too many things in her environment! “Bring back my other pillow! This one is too flat to sit on.”

I have talked at a distance with gerbils, cats, dogs, parakeets, just all sorts of critters. Their owners call me because their animals are experiencing behavioral challenges or eating disorders or physical problems. By tuning in and asking a few direct questions of the animal, it becomes fairly easy for me to find a solution to their discomfort.

Some time ago I was able to diagnose and send healing energy to a horse who was becoming increasingly lame because of a previously unknown ankle injury. The effect of the energy was very positive and required no further work from the veterinarian.

Often with animals there can be a food problem. A particular diet may have worked fine for a length of time and then changes need to be made. It can be as simple as a need for more variety or allergies may have occurred.

 I remember one client’s cat who was quite upset over the fact her owner had changed the brand of tuna she had become accustomed to. Apparently the taste wasn’t quite the same!

When a change occurs in the home environment such as one family member moving away or a totally new residence, animals can “act out”. Depending on the animal and its needs, many different solutions can be found to eliminate their anxiety.

I enjoy my work with people and their animal friends. If you or your animals need a little help just call or e-mail for an appointment. Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com.

WHAT IF____?

What if you just arrived on planet earth today? What if some great creative force brought you here with a male or female human body but without any mental or emotional pattern or instructions? Imagine yourself with the ultimate in life choices and ability to design.

Imagine yourself with no human father, mother or relatives, in other words no patterns you had to follow, no “must have” hereditary gifts!

If that were the case, would you decide to be healthy or sick. Would you decide to enjoy your life or spend it in self-inflicted misery?

You wouldn’t need to be angry like your father because there was no father pattern to follow. You wouldn’t need to be fat like your grandmother because you had no grandmother pattern.

If there were no patterns, you could make your life the most beautiful desirable life that ever was. You could use all the talents you could dream of. Your mind would be open to your personal programs.

Why do I propose such a scenario? My belief is that what we repeatedly tell ourselves about our birth into a particular family, what we emotionally reinforce as certain inherited traits is much stronger than any actual heredity from our lineage. We do not need to amplify the negatives!

Each and every one of us, every individual on earth today, can elect to change their beliefs this minute. Today is the day to decide who you will be right now and all the incoming tomorrows. You have the right to choose! Why not start your new pattern today? Construct that exciting, beautiful scenario for yourself now.

Positive emotionally reinforced beliefs can override any and all negative appearing heredity. Belief is everything. Your mind and emotions are that strong! You can redesign your life one belief at a time starting in this moment.

If you could use a little extra help in overcoming some of your long held beliefs or fears just call me. With hypnosis I can help you redesign some negative thinking into a better way of life. As a certified clinical hypnotist I have helped many clients through difficult circumstances.

Call or e-mail today for an appointment or with any questions: Rev. Lois Cheney, 928-300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

MINING YOUR DREAMS FOR GOLD

MINING YOUR DREAMS FOR GOLD

It makes sense to me that each one of us would like to take the simpler more direct route to achieving our life goals. If we can achieve our soul’s purpose, our true reason for being and incarnating at this time, without following a lot of blind alleys, I believe a positive simple method would surely be our preference.

Yet it often feels that earth is a difficult school to master. In pursuing our desired accomplishments unfortunately it seems we need to stumble here and there and occasionally metaphorically fall flat on our faces. It definitely would be positive and satisfying for us if there were a way to go an easier more productive roadway while using our talents and accomplishing our intended results.

This need or desire for accomplishing our goals with ease and simplicity is where our dreams can be of great help. Our dreams can assist in so many ways. In dreams we can literally try out different approaches without spending needless time and effort on solutions that will not or cannot work. Instead of our usual exhaustive way of trying first this way and then that possibility, through our dreams we can find a way to hone in on the most effective pathway without much time or physical effort.

How can we encourage our dreams to work for us and with us in our efforts? To solicit the required help from your personal dream maker it is necessary to convince your dream creator that you are truly interested and grateful for its help. One of the simple ways of showing your gratitude is to keep a dream journal with as much detail as you can recall from each dream. If you journal in a regular fashion you will find that your dreams occur with greater regularity while becoming more detailed and offering much helpful advice. By journaling and making an effort to understand the messages contained in the dreams, you are really saying to your dream composer “thank you, your help is appreciated. I am ready to receive more of your insight”.

When you are faced with important decisions concerning a particular desire, it is good to write in great detail what you wish to accomplish. Having done that you can read the details aloud to your dream self as you prepare to sleep. You can put into your one way conversation with the dream maker as much detail as you wish concerning the desired solution. Another helpful way to pave the way for important answers also is to say aloud “Tonight I will dream, remember and record the correct solution to this problem situation.

From time to time I have had clients say to me that they do not wish to remember dreams because they have had one or more nightmares. I say congratulations because a nightmare is a dramatic way of pointing out what you are ignoring in the daytime hours, something that really requires your attention. A nightmare can be the very best thing because it opens your eyes to an important issue requiring your investigation and probably decisive action.

Occasionally I have had clients insist that they simply never dream.  Of course that is not true. What is true is that they are not remembering their dreams. We all dream multiple times through our night’s sleep.

How do you become more conscious of your dreams in order to remember as much detail as possible? That is fairly simple. First when you feel yourself starting to wake from sleep, do not move your body and do not open your eyes. Remain in the position you were lying in with your eyes closed.

Next without moving, search your mind to identify your last thought, sight or feeling. Perhaps you only saw color. Perhaps you felt heat or cold. You might remember a sound or fragrance. As you started to wake were you full of a particular emotion: joy, fear, anticipation? Did you interact with other people or animals in the dream scene?

No matter how miniscule your memory of the dream, write down as much as you can without worrying or analyzing those fragments to see whether they make sense or even if they are spelled right! Start with the last thing you remember, then what came before that in the dream and what came before that! This is not the time to start analyzing or working on the message, just remember as much as you can and then save it. Putting your memories on paper or on a recording device will allow other parts of the dream to come back to you throughout the day.

Do not judge yourself for not immediately being able to put together every dream in its entirety. With continual work using this process night after night you will find yourself remembering much more easily and with greater detail.

When you have saved ten or more dreams you may wish to begin looking for repetitive patterns in the dreams. Patterns can reveal and highlight parts of the meaningful messages. It is helpful to note if any of the dreams have similar emotions, settings or locations, the same people or other repeating aspects.

At this point you might start your dream symbol dictionary. For instance, my daughter felt that the sight of me breaking an egg on my third eye in a dream meant hatching a new idea! If you look carefully at any repetition in dreams you will have your own symbols coming to your attention. In days past for instance when I saw two white dogs and one black dog the dream was really focusing on the mindset of my two stepchildren and had nothing to do with dogs at all!

We all have symbols that mean something special to us as individuals. How do you feel about a dream that contains distant steeples, black cats, toilets (if you are not a plumber!), the second story of a dark home, a shovel. The list could go on and on. What is true is that your feeling or dream interpretation of any of these items would be different than mine. That is why your dream symbol dictionary could reveal a lot of meaning for you.

I wish you many nights and days of happy dreaming! I am always ready to help you with your life challenges. All appointments are strictly confidential whether in person or by telephone. Call today Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030.

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HELLO ARKANSAS!

HELLO ARKANSAS!
The last time I lived in Arkansas was 7 or 8 years ago. I had a lovely home in Bella Vista Arkansas. Now I have an equally beautiful home in Rogers Arkansas. I am thrilled to be living in an area that feels like home to me.

Also it is important to me to be near the Ozark Research Institute in Fayetteville for which I am a member and presenter. No more long plane rides just to arrive at the center!

After working at my Rogers home on the “special healing room” I am completely ready to welcome new clients. I took some extra time with furnishing and decorating just to be sure that anyone who comes for a consultation would feel as much happy warming energy as I could create.

Every large geographic move seems to require a new web address as well. Soon www.ArkansasPsychicHypnotist.com and www.ArkansasPsychicMedium.com will be up and running. Special thanks go to my daughter who handles all the technical “stuff”.

Today I invite new and former clients to call or e-mail to schedule their personal private sessions conducted in person or by telephone. My cell phone remains the same: 928-300-2030 and I still have RevLois@gmail.com.

ROGERS, ARKANSAS!!

Here we are, in Rogers, Arkansas, Jake, Boo Boo and me and so happy with everything. Our new home will be ready for us in just a couple more weeks. In the meantime we are looking at all the beautiful lakes and rivers plus finding our way through so many stores. I have a long history with Arkansas and feel as if I have come home. Soon I will visiting with the “Tuesday Night” healers group at the Ozark Research Center in Fayetteville. Yes, it has been years but I will make up for lost time. Looking forward to seeing all my friends again.

OUR BOO BOO AND “TOMORROW”


Boo Boo is our little mixed breed dog. Yes, she is overweight at 14 pounds (our fault for over indulging her) but nevertheless a real love. I was talking to her this morning and petting her.

I wanted to tell her that in just a few short days the movers will come to load up many of our things for Arkansas. What we didn’t want to take of the furniture would go to charity. You see Boo Boo is very possessive of her things. It is her couch, her eating chair, her special pillow etc. I admit she is terribly spoiled. We treat her like our own little girl. Of course I wanted her to know that there would be a new couch for her to lounge on, even though things were changing, she would have everything she needed.

So while I am trying to explain all this to her, I suddenly realized that dogs have absolutely no concept of “future”. They live totally in the moment: “I have food, I have water or I don’t. Or I need to go out.” So how could I tell her that tomorrow she will have a big grass yard to bury her bones? How could I explain that the lower altitude in Rogers Arkansas would feel better on her hurt foot?

The very best I could do was to keep her close to me and warm. I would be careful not to let any of her special sleeping blankets or pillows get away. I would keep as much of the familiar things close at hand as I could and hope that would be enough. Her comfort is important to me and my partner Jacob.

With all of this I began to think how much better we people might be if we were able to enjoy each one of the “now” moments. If we could be aware of what wonderful things and people we have in our lives in this minute, wouldn’t we be happier? But no, instead of enjoying what we have, when we have it, we are always wandering off with our thoughts into future possibilities where life would be better.

You can be sure that I do as much future planning as anyone. To progress with relationships, work, or play, we need our visions. The immutable laws of attraction and positive energy projection are wonderfully powerful tools. At the same time, it seems more joyous overall to allow also moments through the day to remain conscious of each breath of the beautiful and flowing “now”.

It is for our own healthy living to remind ourselves that this moment in time is important. Every minute of every day is a gift and an opportunity. You are blessed with this earth experience. Live, love and feel with strength and intention.

Rev. Lois Cheney
www.PrescottPsychicMedium.com
RevLois@gmail.com

WHAT BETTER TIME?

WHAT BETTER TIME?

Yes, what better time than right now as the New Year approaches to clean your mental, emotional and physical house?

Your mental “cupboard” filled with your past experiences and ideas may have been presenting you with the same old beliefs and decisions over and over. As a hypnotist I know habits are powerful but they can be changed! What if you were to decide to make your own thoughts and desires concerning possibilities for the year 2016 much different? What positive results might present themselves if you were to look at life differently?

Perhaps this year is the year to believe in your own dynamically unlimited possibilities. You could make this coming year the time to assert your own latent abilities and self-esteem! Go ahead with faith and bring forward those things you always wanted to do or even wanted to try but were reluctant to attempt because of imagined possible failure. Make January 1, 2016 a springboard for new experiences. Make all of 2016 your best year yet!

Do you need to change your emotional responses also? We can be so accustomed to responding to certain events in a preprogramed emotional way that we simply fail to notice there could be another response. In other words we might feel that this or that other event is working against us when in fact we can use any situation by drawing on its energy to move forward!

Our automatic emotional responses can be changed. Instead of “oh no” when a seemingly significant “roadblock” appears we might feel or say “isn’t that interesting” and just keep moving ahead. In fact harsh or obviously unwarranted criticism from anyone can be allowed to bounce off you or even be used energetically to propel you forward to your personal desires or destination. Your emotional responses to life events matter!

Why would I mention cleaning your physical house as well? Our homes when they house unused or unusable items can contribute to cluttered thinking and negative reactions as well. For instance is there something that you own that is owning you? Are you required to dust it, move it around, move around it or otherwise care for it when you really don’t want or need it? In other words anything whether it is clothing or appliances or furniture that is no longer of use, needs to be donated, sold or tossed.

It is particularly heavy and potentially depressing to be “warehousing” the clothing of someone who used to live with you and is long gone elsewhere. Your home needs to be your home! Make your possessions serve you, not the other way around. You might be pleasantly surprised at how airy and light your home’s energy will feel when you discard any unnecessary items.

Clearing and cleaning your past mental storage, your emotional responses and your physical home can result in a whole new and more positive you. All three aspects of sanitizing can bring you to see all of your experiences with new eyes. You really can become more of the person you were born to be. Just tackle one aspect at a time. Be ready to be pleasantly surprised at how your life experience will change!

Rev. Lois Cheney
RevLois@gmail.com

HOW ‘NEW’ WILL YOUR NEW YEAR BE?

As we birth the New Year 2016, our thoughts return to the year now past. Perhaps we feel many things could have been better. We see loss in various human arenas…finance, institutions, relationships, and more.

We need to ask ourselves if we want a rehash of 2015 or if we are willing to make the effort to create situations and events in and around us that are truly new. To have a “new” year we must begin to think, act and feel differently about ourselves, our experiences and our abilities.

At this special time of new beginnings I offer these ideas: First, forget the so called “failures” of the twelve months past. Those losses and the actions that created them are over. Instead whip out a sheet of paper and pen. Begin to write everything you did that was a “win”.

Call your list MY SUCCESSES. Documenting your “wins” as a list will be the first step toward your new creation, your new journey. Whatever you did at any time that brought you a good feeling about yourself, your motives and your abilities, write it on your list! The act of writing anything gives it special enlivening energy.

The reason for this exercise is not to encourage living in the past but to allow you to remember and feel those special positive energy and power filled times. What name do you give the power behind those winning memories? Do you think of it as the energy of intuition, Spirit, God, I Am, High Self, Light or Love? Whatever name you give to it that power is still with you to use in any way you can think, dream or imagine.

By making the “My Successes” list you will begin to remember many previously forgotten successful decisions and adventures. Take that energy of success, use it to model your ideal new year.

Did you know that your powerful subconscious will always carry out your orders? Every repetitious thought and emotion you feed to it will be saved, worked with and brought to manifestation. It is a 24-hour-a-day worker. It never becomes tired and it never grows old. Be sure to feed it with your highest thoughts and feelings.

When you access your own “feel good” emotion you have accessed your personally powerful fuel and igniter fluid for constructive manifestation. Throw out any limiting ideas. You know what you desire. Now you have the way to ignite those desires!

It is no secret that most of us can tell you what didn’t work in our lives or what isn’t working. Why fritter away our dynamic energy resources on such a wasteful pastime?

Start cleaning your mental and emotional “house”. When a particular personal habit is a stumbling block, it not only has to be removed but it has to be replaced! It is good to remember that anytime you create a vacuum by removing an idea or emotion, you need to replace it. Otherwise that “hole” will be filled with the “first available”. Most likely it won’t be what you would wish.

As you add to your winning list you will build your confidence in your ability to make changes. The exercise will also bring to the surface new inventive ideas. Start a second list of POSSIBILITIES.

Allow the new ideas to approach you as they are. Just because a particular idea seems beyond your abilities at the moment, write it down anyway. Remember that tomorrow everything can change. What seems impossible today may be right next week.

Do not throw away any of your inspired thoughts. Acknowledge each of them as they arrive. WHEN IN DOUBT…WRITE IT DOWN!

I would like to share with you an excerpt from an e-mail I received from The Intenders group some years ago:

“You are called, now, to give birth to a new way of life for yourself and for all those who walk this world with you. You stand poised at the threshold of great expansion in your perceptions, your possibilities, and your consciousness.

Now is not the time to settle for less or to think small! You are here to rise up and out of the prevailing paradigm of beliefs by shining your light, sharing your joy and your love.”

Happy 2016! May it be your best year yet!

Reverend Lois Cheney
RevLois@gmail.com

DECISIONS AND “THE HEART SCALE”

DECISIONS AND “THE HEART SCALE”
Throughout your day you make various decisions. You move forward, take an action on one task and discard or ignore another. Some of your decisions are minor and of little importance. It seems obvious for instance that little impact comes from choosing one breakfast cereal over another.

On the other hand certain types of decisions can have a more life altering affect. It is those decisions that change the course of your personal history that I wish to address today.

For example, it could be that you feel the need to move out of or drop a personal relationship. It is possible that another rather “foreign” or possibly untried geographic location seems to be calling you. Perhaps a major employment change is being offered away from your current comfort zone.

Larger, deeper and definite positive choices of that kind can open up your life path; give you a greater view of growth-filled possibilities. Unfortunately poor or negative choices can detour your goals, or lead to a number of dead ends.

Those major choices that you make determine how engaged you will be with your own physical and spiritual progress. In fact some decisions have so great an impact that they can determine the course of the rest of your life.

I do not say these things to put you on guard or to frighten you, but rather to offer you another way of making decisions.

This final extra or additional method is to be used only when you have done all the usual homework regarding a particular challenge. It is to be used only when you have looked at the facts, consulted with your spirit guides, masters, and high self. Then is the time to use one more measure!

Let me preface this explanation of the method by saying that I believe strongly in LOVE’S WISDOM. When there are several choices facing me, I choose the way dictated by Love. Love always offers the highest and best to me and the highest and best to any others who may be affected by my decision.

Then here is what I call the HEART SCALE for your use: Close your eyes. Think, feel or imagine that directly in front of you is your personal Heart Scale. It is an upright scale similar to one that might be used to weigh fruits or vegetables. If it helps, you can color the scale pink, gold or any loving color that appeals to you.

When you have that vision firmly in place, imagine further that the large digital scale numbers read from 1 to 10. Ten is the highest and most positive. Now, drop your decision on that scale and see what number IMMEDIATELY flashes on the scale. If you take more than 2 seconds to read the number, you have left your heart decision and moved, or deferred to, your mind or rational thinking decision.

This is a very accurate measure of how your heart and love center feel about any particular decision as long as you make an immediate reading of the number. If you cannot succeed with the instant reading the first time, set the technique aside for awhile and try again.

One of the reasons for using the Heart Scale is to override our human tendency to lie to ourselves about some issues. This tendency comes into play when we feel acknowledging our own deep truth will lead us to making big and sometimes scary changes.

Many times we tend to try to avoid large shifts in our beliefs. We feel we need to be “right” rather than accept and actively pursue what is actually good for us.

I hope you will try this technique. Have fun with it. Make it joyful because your heart wants to be joyful!
Reverend Lois Cheney
(928)300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

PAST, PRESENT OR FUTURE?

While working as a psychic  medium, I spend hours in the future. On behalf of my clients, I look into their future and busily trace possible outcomes resulting from their current decisions and actions. They have questions of all sorts concerning a considered  relocation, employment, relationships, and much more.

After all, this is why clients come to me. They come with a myriad of questions about existing situations or desired changes in their personal lives. They want to know what they can do now to affect tomorrow in a positive way.

I am personally fulfilled by helping clients in this way. Whenever I receive confirmation from one of my clients that some information which was retrieved “in session” was beneficial, it gives me great satisfaction. It tells me that this is the work I was born to do.

Having said all of that, the way for any of us to move into a more productive, abundant future is to be fully present in the now. Our tomorrows will be there when the time comes. It is in this now moment that we can make the potent changes which will insure a better future for each of us.

Looking backward into the past can give information or clues as to why we feel the way we do. The past can suggest why we individually act the way we do, but very few of us really want to remain stuck in our yesterdays or to relive the past. We as humans have a built in drive to always do better! We actively seek new experiences.

Let me on the other hand acknowledge while praising the value to be found in today, that I am all for futuristic daydreaming. The truth is daydreaming combined with intense emotion is a strong creative force. The combination of imagination, emotion and belief or faith will manifest those personal daydreams whether those thoughts and mental pictures are good or bad, positive or negative.

What I am suggesting is that perhaps our creative daydreaming needs to be controlled as to when and where it occurs and carefully analyzed for content!

Too often we are simply not present at times when we need to be. I believe that personal intuition should play a very beneficial protective and productive role in each of our lives. However, if we do not practice being fully present in our daily activities, we risk failing to pick up the “signs” and “signals”. Through lack of attention, we can ignore or fail to recognize our own highest spirit advice.

Being completely present in the now, allows us to feel and to see on a much more accurate level. The result of clear in-depth perceptions is our ability to take advantage of opportunities that might otherwise escape our attention. Further, that kind of “extra sensory knowing” can allow us to avoid potential pitfalls.

Being completely alert and aware throughout your day will bring the best results. When you need special answers, do your “looking” in your meditation room or other private place away from interruptions. It is not necessary to retreat for hours or days to the top of the mountain or even to leave your home.

You have all the ability you require to contact your highest self right where you are. Seek privacy and ask. Ask your guides. Ask your angels. Ask your higher power. Just ask!

You have truly valuable information just waiting for your questions. Offer your receptivity to your highest spirit self! Grab a pen and be prepared for concrete and practical answers.

May I help you with information from your personal guides and teachers? Would you like to contact loved ones who have passed to the other side? I am available for your private appointment and counseling session.

I work from my home office in Prescott Arizona. I will read for you either at my home or by telephone. Each session is recorded on a cassette and given to you for your later review. All your information is strictly confidential.

For your appointment time — call Reverend Lois at (928)300-2030