Category Archives: FEELINGS

ONLY A ROCK

Today my dear friend Jeanne sent me a little present in the mail for no reason at all except she likes to make me feel good with little surprises. The gift was a seemingly ordinary necklace of blue and brown beads. The center piece was a blue stone with flecks of gold. I simply had to wear it with everything. I just couldn’t set it aside. It made no difference whether it matched or it didn’t match what I was wearing. It was a wonder that I didn’t wear it to bed with pajamas!

Finally I thought to look into the “why”, the reason or reasons it had such a powerful attraction for me. Ordinarily everything I buy or receive the very first thing I would do is work with the energies to make sure it was a good “fit”. This time I didn’t. Well wouldn’t you know! I should have guessed it was something special. That stone, which was fairly new in earth terms, still brought back a great powerful memory from my days in Atlantis. Deep midnight blue with flecks of gold. How lovely. Thank you Jeanne. You did more for me than you could have imagined.

“CURSE” OF THE BAD HAIRCUT

“CURSE” OF THE BAD HAIRCUT

How could a bad haircut put a curse on your life? Well of course it couldn’t but it could put a dent in your enjoyment of one day or two perhaps the entire week just by the way you focus on it… Just by the way you refuse to acknowledge that it is a very temporary setback and your hair will grow out again… Just by refusing to believe and realize that ultimately you will have a second chance at successful grooming!

Isn’t it odd the way our self-talk can go? “I just know my husband (or wife) won’t like this mess of a haircut. This is just a disaster!  Now how can I go to a job interview looking like this?” We do tend to obsess over things that are so fleeting and basically no big deal.

Why did I start by using a haircut as the subject of my musings? Simply because with a rather insignificant event sometimes it is easier to understand and admit what many times we do to sabotage our own joy. Just as easily I could have used the example of his fancy formal shirt ruined by a wine spill or the elegant dress that shrank to doll-size in the wash. Even if all three things had happened they would not be enough to actually ruin a life!

It is important to realize that any discomforting event will eventually be past history. The quicker we are willing to maintain a positive focus while accepting things as they are right now, the sooner things will change for the better. Holding on for dear life to misery, continually feeding it more energy, just creates more misery and emotional upheaval.

To look at it in a different way, what you resist persists. There is no getting around the fact that the more we push against the existing circumstances, refusing to accept them, the longer they seem to stay with us. The more we hold tight to our unhappy feelings, the more miserable we become.

All of this does not suggest that you should not take corrective action when it is called for but it should be done with a feeling of allowing things to work out in their appropriate timing. Force brings about opposing force. The more we demand situations to change this instant the harder, denser and more unmovable they become.

On any issues larger than a haircut for instance it is perfectly normal to be upset over the loss of a friendship or the passing of a pet. In such circumstances we simply need to limit the amount of time we allocate to grieving and begin to put energy into more progressive pursuits. Such heartfelt losses need not be allowed to ruin endless weeks and months. There will always be other people who will be grateful for your friendship. There will always be loving pets needing you.

I actually have seen people go into mild depression over the fact that their favorite automobile was no longer repairable, simply could not function and had to be “retired”. Life is too precious to waste any of it in ongoing regret or self-recrimination of any kind. I “could have” or “should have” never solves anything.

Each one of us is here on earth to use our wonderful God given gifts and talents while learning our life lessons. If we are to fulfill our destiny we need to pursue our life paths with determined optimism and joy. It is difficult to be productive if we are continually looking over our shoulders at past unhappiness or reviewing current difficulties over and over again.

Think of it this way: one plan didn’t work, but there are other options; the home you wanted was already sold, but there will be a better one; your friend moved away, but you can ease your next door neighbor’s loneliness with a few moments of your company while at the same time making your own feelings lighter in the process.

Keep looking on the bright side and your personal light will shine brighter not only for your benefit but for others. There is never a good reason to concentrate on what you do not want. Look instead to what you can do right now this moment to access your inner joy.

When you can find a reason to be thankful, to be grateful for anything at all, it is much easier to get into your joy. And when you are joyful you will find positive creative ideas will come so easily. Being in joyful gratitude gives you added energy to carry out those tasks that are calling for your special abilities. I believe that each one of you my readers is capable of greatness!

If you need a little help in keeping your thinking on a positive track while stopping all the worrisome “detours”, give me a call. Hypnosis is a quick and effective way to restructure your habitual thinking. With some hypnotherapy you will find yourself believing in “possibilities” rather than “problems”. Inculcating or installing a positive attitude with the help of your subconscious mind allows you to access clearer thinking and simpler solutions to life’s stumbling blocks.

Call Reverend Lois Cheney today for your private hypnosis appointment or psychic consultation.

(928)300-2030 or e-mail RevLois@gmail.com

 

HEALTHY HAPPY ANIMALS!

Since the early 1970’s I have been helping animal lovers with their questions and concerns about all sorts of pets and horses. With animals it is very easy for me to “tune in”. In generality animals are very open and direct in telling me their needs and desires.

For instance my little dog is not at all shy about giving me a rough talking-to when I change one too many things in her environment! “Bring back my other pillow! This one is too flat to sit on.”

I have talked at a distance with gerbils, cats, dogs, parakeets, just all sorts of critters. Their owners call me because their animals are experiencing behavioral challenges or eating disorders or physical problems. By tuning in and asking a few direct questions of the animal, it becomes fairly easy for me to find a solution to their discomfort.

Some time ago I was able to diagnose and send healing energy to a horse who was becoming increasingly lame because of a previously unknown ankle injury. The effect of the energy was very positive and required no further work from the veterinarian.

Often with animals there can be a food problem. A particular diet may have worked fine for a length of time and then changes need to be made. It can be as simple as a need for more variety or allergies may have occurred.

 I remember one client’s cat who was quite upset over the fact her owner had changed the brand of tuna she had become accustomed to. Apparently the taste wasn’t quite the same!

When a change occurs in the home environment such as one family member moving away or a totally new residence, animals can “act out”. Depending on the animal and its needs, many different solutions can be found to eliminate their anxiety.

I enjoy my work with people and their animal friends. If you or your animals need a little help just call or e-mail for an appointment. Reverend Lois Cheney (928)300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com.

CLOTHES IN THE CLOSET


Yes, at last after all the home renovations I am able to open the bedroom closet and see my old familiar clothes “friends” with me here in Rogers Arkansas. Why is that important? It is mostly because Jake, Booboo and I moved our home base from the far west of Arizona to the heartland of northwest Arkansas.

Nothing seems to settle me down like having familiar things around me. In this case it was my shoes, dresses and sweaters. Opening the closet door and having my red jacket smiling back at me was pure delight. Of course after all the unpacking and reorganizing our little dog Booboo is especially happy to enjoy her usual bed, treats and toys.

When you consider it, most of us are operating on habitual expectations. We depend on the familiar. We have certain firmly held beliefs. We expect to know which cupboard, which drawer holds the knives and forks without a lot of searching. We hold a memory card for that specific location. Also depending on traffic lights as we travel, we know to stop the car without a lot of thought about what a red light means.

In general habit serves us very well indeed until we cease looking at some aspects of it. When we make decisions on life’s recurring issues by merely following what we always do in similar situations, we may cut off some more positive options.

The actions we take may be on seemingly small problems but unfortunately everything we do affects something or someone else. It pays to open up our thinking to allow that there is almost always more than one solution to any challenge.

I was teaching an intuitive development class for the college in Arizona when one of my students asked me to give her a method for forcing her coworker to agree with her own firmly held plan of action. She wanted to mentally force her coworker to see the “right” way. I suggested that just possibly there was more than one way of resolving the problem, more than one possible solution. I guess I was too forceful because my student didn’t return!

Habit many times serves us well. All I am suggesting is that sometimes we need to consider some of our more imbedded habits and automatic reactions. It is good to see if a certain familiar path has lost its usefulness. Occasionally we might catch ourselves using outdated solutions we used as children which no longer work in our adult world.

As a certified clinical hypnotist I am often asked to “reframe” ideas, those old knee jerk reactions and habits for a client. The subconscious mind will do anything for you given the right instructions. Hypnosis is a reliable way of imbedding those new instructions. With the deep meditative state accessed through hypnosis you always have the option of creating a new improved neural pathway for more positive results.

Call for more information on how I might help you achieve your goals. Rev. Lois Cheney 928-300-2030 or RevLois@gmail.com

RATIONAL vs INTUITIVE

The multidimensional mind is an interesting place! Yes, we need our rationality but sometimes the intuitive sensing can be a lot more practical help in the long run.

I want to tell you a little true incident from my experience. Some years ago I purchased a wonderful book by another author: “Living in Balance”. It is one of those books that you read a chapter or so and then set it aside because it is so packed with great concepts and ideas.

My particular copy of the book was definitely used. I may have purchased it at the Goodwill or perhaps a used bookstore. I really don’t remember where I bought it. At any rate it was full of side notes and underlining in various colored ink and pencil. Those handwritten comments were put on the pages by a number of other readers.

One day as I was leafing through the book it occurred to me that it was not as physically “beautiful” as I thought it should be. I thought it wasn’t somehow presentable enough to be in my bookcase. I decided to order a nice new copy thinking it would “look better” on the shelf.

I did order a new copy which arrived a week or so later. The odd thing was I felt absolutely no desire to open or handle the new very clean book! I finally asked myself why. Turns out I had failed to realize all those people who had hand written margin notes and underlined passages in the old copy had become my friends!

I didn’t know those folks in the usual way but somehow I loved them. They had offered me different points of view. Each one of them had taken on the role of teacher for me and I missed them!

If only I had checked in with my gut intuition before I ordered another copy, I would have realized the appearance of the cover and pages were of no importance to me. No I did not throw away the new book but it will probably be in that same pristine condition in my bookcase forever!

YES: HYPNOSIS TOO!

You probably know me, Rev. Lois Cheney, as a psychic trance medium, healing channel and clairvoyant. Many of you are familiar with my readings, spirit messages, chakra alignments, entity removal, and home or office energy clearings. What you may not know is that I am also a certified Clinical Hypnotist in Prescott, Arizona.

I offer my clients a simple way to change any unhealthy or unwanted habits through hypnosis. In addition hypnosis provides an easy way to overcome fear of flying, public speaking nervousness, general stress reduction and pain control. Weight and smoking issues can be corrected. Other clients ask for past life regression to discover relationships which have their origin in the past as well as to eliminate physical or emotional challenges that have “carried over.”

For those of you who may not have experienced hypnosis, the feeling is very similar to a deep state of meditation. In hypnosis you are taken into your own theta brain wave which regularly occurs in you throughout your own various stages of sleep. While relaxed in that state you are more deeply receptive to suggestions that are able to bring about your desires. You and I always agree on the nature of those suggestions before you relax into the hypnotic state.

I want you to know that while in hypnosis you are still in charge of those suggestions which you wish to accept! That is why it is said that all hypnosis is merely self-hypnosis. You can always reject a suggestion that does not align with your desires while accepting only those ideas which you feel are for your highest good.

If you would like to read more about my offerings in clinical hypnosis you can go to my website: www.PrescottPsychicHypnotist.com. All sessions are completely personalized to fit your needs.

To schedule your private appointment in my healing room in Prescott Arizona call me: (928)300-2030 or E-Mail: RevLois@gmail.com

 

IS YOUR SPACE CLEAR?

Is the space where you live, work and play completely clear and energized? How does your living room, bedroom or office feel? Or are there times when you feel you have stepped into a sort of energetic cloudiness?  Do you ever encounter a feeling of general unrest and you don’t understand who, what or where it is coming from?

If you repeatedly enter into a somewhat darker or less cheerful energy in one of the areas you habitually use, perhaps it is time to investigate further. If for instance you have recently moved into a different home or apartment and do not feel energetically supported by your surroundings, it may be that you are hosting the unpleasant dark energy of a previous tenant or owner.

When unhealthy activities of any kind have taken place in a location, there may be a “hangover” of those events present. A room that was used for some extended period as a sick room can still radiate that feeling. An area where violent confrontations have taken place may seem to still reverberate with that noise and anger.

If on the other hand you encounter some new or unusual unpleasantness where there was none previously it is possible that you have picked up a negative “cord” or attachment somewhere in your travels. It is entirely possible that negativity which you innocently carried can feel at home and then deposit itself in your space.

Those of us who are sensitive to disruptive forces may suffer when in unhappy or fearful locations. Even when our emotional upset or distressed feelings are only in response to energetic memories imbedded in the walls (as opposed to literal ghosts or spirits) a good psychic house or office clearing may be the best solution.

Many times through the years I have been called to remove and replace such confusing and unhappy vibrations in addition to freeing an occasional stuck spirit, ghost or apparition. Having made an initial assessment of a particular situation with my guides, I have many diverse methods at my disposal that I can use in various combinations for a clearing.

Just as important after I have successfully cleansed a space is the replacement of that energy which has been removed with new clear positively vibrating energy. I am certain to do that refill before I leave any clearing. The reason is that every time a “vacuum” is created by clearing out negativity it must be filled. Otherwise it will be filled naturally with whatever is at hand and that may not be what is wanted or needed!

If any of the above energy “symptoms” or needs resonate with your current experiences, give me a call. I can help. I am your Prescott Arizona Psychic Medium, Rev. Lois Cheney (928)300-2030 or E-Mail:RevLois@gmail.com

 

 

“TODAY IS MY BEST DAY YET!”

Yes, today is my best day yet. Why? Because I intend it. Because I deliberately activate my imagination to work for the highest and best today. Because I tell myself that today is my best day.

If I stick to that elevated thought throughout the day, I will draw to me those delightful, energetic friends and strangers who are envisioning the same for themselves. Together we will create unique and individual “best days” for all those who join us on that same energy train.

Your thoughts about the day, about yourself and all the days to come, are busy molding your experiences. The thoughts that you habitually entertain are your powerful emissaries. Your personal thoughts will scour the globe for you, finding everything and everyone that you intend, just to satisfy your beliefs. Those thoughts will create, will manifest, that which you believe. Your thoughts will be made visible in your life!

Since you have so much power to mold and shape your reality now and in the future, shouldn’t you take full advantage of that strength? Why not pay more attention to what you think and the accompanying emotions? You are absolutely capable of channeling and monitoring your thoughts. Yes, you will entertain momentary lapses into past patterns, but you can immediately replace any harmful ideas with positive ones.

Today and every day, give yourself the most positive momentum and forward thrust that you can imagine by keeping your thoughts on the upbeat. Remind yourself often: “I am in charge of my thoughts. I want the best for myself. I will think and visualize better and better every day. I will see, imagine and know that I am a winner.”

If you want health, see yourself healthy. Envision, imagine yourself participating in all the exciting and energetic activities that a healthy person enjoys. If you want prosperity, see yourself in all the situations where a prosperous person lives and thrives. Do you wish for friends? Begin thinking and acting friendly. Know that you are a warm and loving person.

If anything in your life is “not working” at the moment, begin to change your thinking about that situation or relationship. As you entertain better thoughts, your life becomes better. Yes, you already have the energy, the ability, the talent and the opportunity to make the changes you want now.

The desires of your heart were placed there by your own high spirit. Before your incarnation on this earth, you received all the talent and energy to manifest those desires. All that is required of you is a change of thought and some earnest follow up action! Today and tomorrow, tell yourself: “This is my Best Day yet!” Make this the truth of every day.

This concentrated positive thought will bring your own gratitude and thankfulness to such a level, that you will find yourself riding a creative  energy “high”. In that energy you will no longer acknowledge any limits. You will live and work with a marvelous sense of freedom.

I am here in Prescott Arizona to help you with any life dilemma. I can work with you in my healing room or over the telephone. Just call or e-mail for your personal appointment.

RevLois@gmail.com

(928)300-2030

O KARMA, MY KARMA

Each and every one of you is a magnificent powerful manifester. Yes, you are an extremely talented creator of your own life events. Day to day you create within the light activated ball of energy that is you. You created your relationships, your home, you even selected the family you were born into. What an outstanding job you did and continue to do every moment!

Now here we all are on this interesting earth plane experience. Do any of you feel that time has changed, that it is moving faster and faster? It seems to me the first day of any given month arrives and then suddenly the month has slipped away. Yes, it does feel as if time has sped by and nearly disappeared while we were keeping busy handling the events of daily life.

As I view it, the interesting part of this apparently fast-moving time event we are experiencing is that we are also treated to or gifted with nearly instantaneous Karmic returns. Yes, that is what I said, very nearly instantaneous Karmic returns. Now how does that make you feel? A little apprehensive perhaps?

Many of us think of Karma as being negative but of course it can be either negative or positive. What is always true however, is that what we send out comes right back to us although in a somewhat different form or appearance and most likely from an apparently different source. Yes, the universal laws are absolutely immutable. Those laws never change! You send the fully formed energy patterns out into the ethers and they come back to you with similar force and emotion.

The energy we exert always creates some sort of matching effect. When we put strong energy into anything it carries more power than we may believe or intend. Perhaps in a moment of anger or confusion we say some regrettable thing and then believe it is over and done. But of course it isn’t. That energy has made a pattern and it is connected to us. It has gone out into the cosmos to create for us.

Words, thoughts, actions, emotions create our fully formed patterns! All of these are continually working to create our future moments. The emotions that we attach to our thoughts, words and actions act as a powerful fuel increasing the intensity of the energy patterns we make.

Now what is instant Karma? Suppose you go grocery shopping for a neighbor who has been sick and confined to the house for nearly two weeks. You put her groceries away, perhaps even fixing her a sandwich or a bowl of soup. You may find that an hour or two later a friend is knocking at your door offering free tickets and a car ride to the fair. It does seem to bounce back that quickly.

Although if instead of doing a kind favor for someone you forcefully kick the neighbor’s dog which you found upending your favorite flowers. The resulting “return” might be just as quick. As you finish your own grocery shopping, you begin loading packages into your car and discover that some passerby has decided your car needed a little more design etched on the driver’s side with his nice sharp key.

Most of the time of course we have no idea which energy it was that we put forth that was ultimately responsible for bringing in the corresponding event. Then again it occasionally might be connected to what are past life “carry-overs”, those things we did in a former life that created a karmic debt or lesson.

Regardless of what we are experiencing today, if our desire is for a joyous spirit filled life, it would seem each of us is burdened with the task of watching our words, our thoughts, our emotions and naturally our actions. It is a huge task. It would appear to require us to be present continually in every now moment. That ever present now moment is where our power to create our highest and best desires is available for our use.  Now is when we can make positive changes.

It seems to me that emotions present one of our heaviest and most powerful energies to watch. Why would I say that? Because emotions are a highly combustible fuel when added to our thoughts, fears, actions or worries. When we are upset over someone or something we tend to mentally dwell on it over and over again. Imagining the worst and adding more and more “what if this” and “what if that” and “they shouldn’t have”. It becomes so monstrous that the memory, the rehash is not even near the original force but many times more intense. We actually send out multiple energy patterns of our discontent bringing the same kind of experiences into our lives over and over again.

I have an idea that might make this work of being aware a little more interesting and perhaps less stressful. You know that your words, thoughts, actions and feelings are made of energy. Further, you believe that the energy of all that you are producing cannot be seen. But suppose you decided that when you spoke or thought, the energy of those words and ideas painted a detailed picture that carried sound and color. Suppose your energy filled feelings were like a miniature movie or cartoon which was being widely distributed throughout the universe. Would this make you think twice about the content?

Suppose that your distressed actions created a movie complete with intensifying music, building to a crescendo, and of course panoramic shots of the entire event. Would you consider a bit more seriously before creating an unpleasant scenario?

Now what if the difficulty is a memory from a long time past? Each time the memory arrives you add some more distressed energy to it. Yes it is only the past but each time you entertain it, it seems to gain momentum and more bad feelings.

I have many times practiced a tweaking procedure with my own unpleasant memories. In other words every time the old thoughts would arise, I would begin changing the mental movie a little at a time. If it was an argument I would see it more of a calm discussion with all parties being quite reasonable. Every time the old memory would reappear I would adjust it even further until there was no way it could cause me to add any additional angst to it.

That method always worked for me without bothering any of the other people who were actually involved. And if in the energetic sense the others felt some relief as well, all the better!

Another way to approach the bitter old memory problem is with a certain kind of writing. The writing is not mailed or given to anyone it is again strictly for your personal comfort.

First you address the way you felt at the time of the situation. Spell out all of your feelings, arguments and ideas from your point of view on paper. Then when you feel complete, imagine the other person in a totally calm and rational mood (even if you have never experienced them in that way). Now seeing them in that way, allow their words to be put on the paper.

Do this writing that comes through them without second guessing anything that they might say, just write what they might be feeling in that kind and gentle state of mind. Chances are when you write their views from that vantage point you will begin seeing some surprising possibilities and gain emotional calm yourself.

If you still have something you need to say, write that and again allow them in their most reasonable countenance to respond. It can be most cathartic and many times will allow you to release the whole affair without a second thought.

All of these exercises for improving our personal energy and the resultant experiences are intended to free us to be happy and to really enjoy our lives. Our overall health physical, mental, emotional and yes spiritual as well depends on our ability to love ourselves and others enough to be free of any harsh ideas or judgments. Create well my friends! The power is yours.

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